Be a Better You in 365 Days Challenge – DAY 11: ARK (A Random Act of Kindness)

This is Day 11 of How to Be a Better Person in 365 Days (365 Challenge) October 2011 Challenge. View list of tasks: 365 Challenge Overview

Welcome to Day 11 of How to Be a Better Person in 365 Days Challenge!

Thank you to everyone who is following, regularly adding comments (see below) and who is doing the challenge with me. If you have not yet subscribed or not following, you still have the change to do so! The Challenge will be open for 354 days till October 1st 2012.

Today, we will be focusing on: Kindness.

“You are here to serve others, to be a light for them, to participate in their lessons and to help heal humanity. You are also here to serve yourself, to heal your karma, to enable your soul’s growth and reconnect to the Source. Your challenge is to find a balance between serving others and yourself so that you can accomplish the tasks that you established for yourself in this lifetime and even go beyond that. How you view your role in serving others is an important part of this process.” – URIEL HEALS By Jennifer Hoffman .

Day 11: Day of Virtues: Kindness

Ensure you’ve officially signed up for the course before you continue on to today’s task. Today’s task is a day long task.

On a scale of 1-10, how kind do you think you are?

Reason being kindness is such an integral part of being human, and living a better life. Without kindness, the world will be a dark, gloomy place.

Imagine people stuck in their worlds, refusing to lend helping hands to others. Imagine people who have no care in whether you’re sick, injured, or dead. Imagine people who will not lift a finger to help you, even when you’re in need. Imagine everyone who only fend for him/herself, never for others around them.

How will you feel in such a world? Will you like it? Why or why not?

Will you want to be in a world like this?

For me, I see kindness as an essential part of life. If we live in a world where kindness does not exist, then I rather not be part of this world. For everything will be empty and void of life. Everything will be mechanical and dead. Rather than colour and life, we’ll be living in a world of grey. For more virtues see: “Virtues to Being a Better Person

For today’s task, let us bring light into the world of others. Today is all about being kind to others.

Your Task: Be Kind Today

Imagine you’re standing before a room that’s bursting with warm, golden light. The light is so bright that you can see it bursting through every opening, every nook and cranny from inside the room to the world. It’s literally overpowering everything in your surroundings.

As you walk up to the door, you see the word “Kindness” written on it. This is when you realize this is a room filled with pure, sheer, unadulterated kind energy.

Your task today:

  1. Step into the room.
    • Imagine yourself being basked, from head to toe, in the pure, kind energy. The light is so powerful that it penetrates into your body and reaches into the core of your heart.
    • As it does that, it somehow unlocks something inside you, deep in your soul. Suddenly, a strong beam of light starts to shine from inside your heart, first illuminating your whole body, and bursting into the world out there.
    • This occurs for a good 5-10 seconds, before the light fades away. You’re now radiating a positive glow; an luminescent aura that. There’s no doubt about it – you’re now a different person from before you stepped inside. You’re now filled with kindness, inside and out. Every fibre of your being, every cell in your body, is now filled with pure, kind energy.
  2. Today, you are a beacon of Kindness. Exemplify Kindness in everything you do, every thought you have, every action you take. This means…
    • Being kind to everyone you see.
    • Going out of your usual zone to help others.
    • Smiling at strangers, even they aren’t smiling at you first.
    • Saying hi / Greeting everyone you see.
    • Doing something special for someone / others, without reason.
    • Loving others as if they were you.
  3. Pledge your Kindness for Day 4 by sharing them in the comments.
    • List down the Acts of Kindness you are going to do for Day 4, not actions you’ve already done in the past or for Days 1-3. A number of you are taking the actions you’ve already done before reading Day 4′s task (i.e. Day 3 / Aug 3) as your results for Day 4, which is actually defeating the intention of the exercise and of this challenge!
    • There is no limit for Kindness – even if you’ve always been conscious about being kind to others, push yourself and see what other Acts of Kindness you can do for Day 4. You’ll be amazed by what you can come up with.
  4. Report back at the end of the day (via replying to your comment thread) with your experience, findings, and revelations if any.

Day 4 Reflection for 365 Challenge!

  1. Is there anything you learned today?
  2. If so, what is it? Write it down.

Share Your Answers!

What acts of kindness did you do today? How was the experience? What have you learned?


10 thoughts on “Be a Better You in 365 Days Challenge – DAY 11: ARK (A Random Act of Kindness)

  1. Today was very unusual for me! I found myself drowning in kindness and charity. Yesterday was awesome. I believe I was ‘more’ kind yesterday then today but I am generally a caring, kind, positive and support person. I have plenty of food in the fridge that I will be giving away today as I do grow some of my own produce which I seem to surplus in – not sure of what I am doing right but I am doing it right! Plenty of fresh eggs so today I will delivering eggs.
    Every week we get our fruit and veg delivered to us directly from the markets (ie: farmers markets). The produce is always the best and lasts longer without the additives in our fridge. Yesterday was SO my day of kindness. It happened on its own without me needing to do anything. But…

    a) I am planning to visit my neighbor who is moving out by this weekend and I asked how she was doing and whether I could help her in some way. In return for my kindness – I am collecting her used deep freezer (which we have been chasing for awhile so we can store our frozen goods as our norm freezer is tiny). Its amazing all I did was ask, talk about her gear that she needs to get give away/move and we even rang a charity to collect the stuff that is not needed that others could use. BRILLIANT!
    b) Secondly I am heading over to Runaway Bay to drop of my spare carton of fresh eggs (they are not caged eggs) to a close friend who has two little boys who love scramble eggs as they are between 2-5 years old.
    c) A friend called yesterday, who was absolutely Lilly-livered about her results in business and how unrewarding it was. So, I decided to buy her some colourful flowers and an inspiring cards – which I added some affirmations, positive and supportive sentences I believe she will continue to refer to when she has another sad, pick-me-up day or just needs a reminder of how special she is to the world, her love and family and others.
    d) I was kind to myself. I find that I beat myself up sometimes over nothing and nothing especially if I am torn between things… Like I should be over here, no there, I should be doing that there, but now and so forth. Do you ever have thoughts similar to mine? Conflicting.

    Update: e) I am also helping a friend on the weekend move her furniture and get settled in. Its SO amazing that just the tiniest thought or using your pinky helps others and look at the rewards you get for just helping or being there for someone else.

    Now, I would absolutely love to hear what everyone is doing today and what your plans are for Day 11 ARK.

    All the best,
    Ezzy 🙂

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